Being that time of year again, apple are ripening up and ready to eat. I love apple season there are so many wonderful things you can do with them. Apples pies, apple sauce, apple crumble, apple juice, dried apples and then there are the crafts you can do with them.
Childhood obsession, I love it and hate it at the same time. Currently Damian is transformers, Ainsley is cars, and well Cael tends to just want something to chew. I have been looking for ways to take Damian’s desires, and makes them educational and less about shooting and such. I’m hoping with our program with Summit that they will be offering the lego robotics course again. I think Bug would be super excited by it and amazed.
This was not nearly as busy of a week, spent more time at home, doing things that needed to get done. Damian was a bit less enthusiastic about doing the work. He start with vim and vigour and it would dwindle and he would lose focus quicker. Once again confirming that brick and mortar schools wouldn’t be the best for him. I’m finding more and more if we have real hands on activities he seems to “get it” more. You can tell Damian things till you are blue in the face but there doesn’t seem to be a concrete and tangible reason for it he has no desire to do it. As well things go quicker and are done neater if I’m able to sit and do stuff with him. So generally speaking most of our homeschooling work happens when the baby is sleeping so I can focus more on Damian.
It’s a fun little thing for them to do and explore and both boys liked doing it. Making pictures or putting together different shapes to make a new shape. So now we are on a quest to notice shapes everywhere we go and try to name them. We have the basic shapes down, square, rectangle, circle, triangle, diamond and oval. Not we are working on the more complicated ones and counting how many side they have. Also Damian has been pointing out how shapes with the same name look different. like different stars and triangles. I am amazed so often how much he takes in a recognizes things. What a smart little boy he is!!!
Some days I feel so bad for Ainsley being the middle child must really suck at times. He’s a big boy but not big enough to do everything Bug does and never as quickly. He is still so young but more is expected of him than of Cale. He can do so much but he still wants to do more. He always want to be the leader he wants to do things first he wants to be number one. But with three children one of them can’t always be number one. “ME DO IT!!!” is probably the most common phrase out of him. He wants to get his own snack get his own water. (which was fine before it needed to be from the full jug out of the fridge, when it was just out of the sink in the bathroom) I let him to most thing for himself and then see if he needs help after he has tried. I am a stickler though if it makes a mess you need to clean it up. the water jug is a big one cause with tile floor covering it with water is really dangerous. Major hazard to ones health, which of course means extra fun for little boys. I’m not a big fan of hospitals and stitches so we really try and keep the floor dry.
- let him do as much as possible. And if he can’t let him try and then help him. Telling him he can’t do it only makes him angry
- Have his brother allow him to be the leader, or pick first or whatever the issue is sometimes.
- Give him HIS time. between homeschooling Bug and the care of lil Squish. Sometimes me and him just need to go sit and read a book, have a cuddle, talk a bit or play a game that is just focused on him.
- Attack with love. Honestly when I just want to lose my cool I have to check myself, and warp him in my arms and hug and kiss him.
- Allow him to have his big emotions. So far Bobo is being the standard toddler with the huge emotions that explode. they are true and real and when he is done we can deal with the issue.
- Have real boundaries and limits that don’t change. Some things are just not optional. “No you can’t have the steak knife to cut up the cardboard by yourself”, it just isn’t safe. But this is where the helping comes in again.
Okay so school officially started this week. Which of course means time to actually look at the curriculum, and plan things are get our selves organized for the week. I decided that I really should plan my week on the weekends so that I have everything planned and laid out and less winging it. Guess how well that actually worked out? Yup not so much. I had our outings planned and a rough idea of what we were doing for work but that was about it. Bug loved it though, he actually enjoys having workbooks, worksheet
and little projects to do. I’m really happy that he is enjoying it, I’m enjoying it too! We are working along side each other and I’m getting to explore things with him.
This is Damian’s introductory writing assignment that he did for his first project. It was to be about an event that happened over the summer. He chose to write about a day at the zoo. He has drawn a few animals that we saw and each person that was there with us. He is just starting to get more into art work and creating things. He rather draw pictures of just people and isn’t much of a background kind of guy.
We also spent the week going to different NOT back to school picnics. Gatherings with home learners from around the areas meeting new people forming new connections. We got a ton of sun and all the children were completely tired by the end of the day. We were able to explore new parks which is always a good thing with three little boys. i loved that they were making new friends with children of different ages too! Bug made a friend with an 8 year old girl. He never got her name but he was very excited about his 8 year